"I believe in selfishness. The best way for me to serve others is to selfishly serve myself well.
When I take the time to feel good physically, I do a better job.
That requires some selfishness.
When I do what I want to do, I am better at it, and the better
I am at what I do, the better others are served by what I do.
It is possible to give so much of yourself away that you compromise
the quality of what you have to give."
-Larry Winget, author, motivational/actualization guru